My shopping habits have changed significantly over time. In my work as a Market Editor, I had to search for specific items for stories instead of casually perusing the internet. Eventually, I also began to shop for myself that way. Of course, there are still times that I'll scroll a site, but mainly, I visualize what I feel is missing from my wardrobe and then hunt for it.
I frequently do this on vintage sites because the wordy descriptions fit my search terms, the item's quality is often more consistent, and it's usually one-of-a-kind and feels more special. By shopping this way, I can find an item so perfect it's like I dreamed it up myself, avoiding mistakes and purchases I regret.*
I didn't shop the sales over the holiday weekend because I believe it's essential to shop because you want something specific, not just because there's a good deal. Good deals are great, but shopping to satisfy a craving is more satisfying than an aimless snack. That's why I believe the Silhouette System™ is so helpful. It's a guide that helps you become more aware of what makes you confident—your likes and dislikes—so you don't invest in something you'll wear once or never. Just because something is a deal doesn't mean it works for you.
*Of course, from time to time, something appears before I could ever envision it. I do a lot of shopping packets for clients, and I'm always thrilled to stumble across a gem. When this happens, though, I sit with it in my cart or favorites tab for a bit and envision three outfits featuring that item that excite me. That helps me judge whether the item fits my wardrobe and style.
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